Akonadi ItemFetchJob: Add customizable delivery options

One can now configure how the ItemFetchJob should return the results -
in batches, individually, or via the getter functions.

This is especially useful when fetching very large collections for
indexing since we can keep indexing them and dropping them. Otherwise
they would all be stored internally in the ItemFetchJob and would
consume a lot more memory.

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